She was a healthy, vibrant, 59 year old. I took care of her for over 20 years. Me and my husband tried everything for 6yrs to get pregnant and then it finally happened right before IVF treatment and then 2 weeks later my mom was diagnosed with Liver Cancer.
Bonnie Scotland 10 days ago For all new posters and Elma Im so sorry for your loss and the pain you are suffering.
I remember her singing in the kitchen, taking us to see our grandparents, and one Christmas morning when she wore a spotted navy dress for church. You have to grow around it; your path is shaped by it. She lived with me and everyday I think of her and miss her dearly.
I hated being the center of attention, with people asking me continuously if I was OK. Every time it rains, it stops raining. Some days you will think of her and smile. Worst thing is she didn't stay to hold my first child. I have some sketchy memories of him coming home from work, and me being really excited to see my dad, but my strongest memories are of visiting him in hospital just before he died.
Elma i hope you are doing as well as possible at the moment. I will get pass this I know. I played it off all day. I grew up without a dad so she was both my parents. But as time goes on, you are no longer able to hear the voicemail because the phone is now off. Also the last holiday of my first events without her which is thanksgiving.
Cant believe its been a year.
I figured if i could make it though the worst time of my life than i could help others do the same. The pain is crippling. Most of the time i feel a big heavy pain on my chest i kniw our lifes will mever b the same.
Praying for you and hoping things are better for you now. Physical planes cannot separate love and i know this to be true.
You were just left to it, to your own thoughts — there was no information. I was too excited to go home to tell her how was my exams but it wont happened. Since I retired 3 years ago we spent a lot of time going over the past.
There are no shortcuts. And while this is a pain that all creatures who are born must face, it does not make saying goodbye to your mother any easier to do. She is at peace, I took care of her by myself for over 20 years with very little help from my family.
You will have dreams that comfort you as she assures you that she is okay. It was just waiting. I forgot to take care of myself. Or you find yourself wanting to tell her the funny thing that the baby did today.
I hear your pain and grief. What are we supposed to do with that? The good memories are more so from before she was diagnosed with cancer. She was unconcious by then. We were inseparable since my father died in I can put on my social mask and act ok, but deep down a huge part of me died with my mum.
Barb Were you touched by this poem? I was taking my board exam not knowing she's gone. The family that didn't come and see her when she was alive, have not been to the house since the funeral. She was only turned 60 the other day.
She was my only true friend and it's so difficult living my life without her.There is a void that can never be filled, because there is no other love in this world like the love of a mother.
There is so much that she has missed and will miss. It rips you up and tears you down.
Why no man ever gets over the unbearable pain of losing his mother: Their love is unconditional. Losing your mother is like a world without the sky 22 August Nothing prepared me for her loss, even knowing she would die — she had been ill for more than two years.
My mother gasped and cried, then knelt in prayer. She goes through life living unhappy Her children's smiles are kind and pure. Her struggles and abuse she endures Trying to hide the pain She stays in this situation, hoping her children will ultimately gain/5().
A mother has spoken about the pain she still feels after her daughter was killed by her boyfriend in order to win a cooked breakfast. Rebecca Aylward, 15, was beaten to death with a rock by her.
Feb 15, · Losing your mother is a pain like no other pain. There are ways to make it easier to endure the pain and still honor your dear agronumericus.coms: K.Download